8 Ways to Develop an Attitude of Gratitude this Thanksgiving!

Attitude of Gratitude

8 Ways to Develop an Attitude of Gratitude this Thanksgiving

It’s November!!  Say WHAT??  Is anyone else staring at the calendar and wondering where the rest of the year went?  I know I am!  

With the arrival of November, you will notice a sudden surge in gratitude.  Many people make a habit of posting something they are thankful for each day on Facebook or Instagram.  Lots of people start thankfulness and gratitude challenges.  These are awesome!  But…what does it really mean to be thankful?   Continue reading →

Intro to Bullet Journaling

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What is a Bullet Journal?

Ryder Carroll, the creator of the Bullet Journal system, calls it “the analog system for the digital age.”  Do you ever get overwhelmed by the blitz of digital information?  I know I do!

Sometimes it’s hard to process all the emails, social media, online calendars, voicemail, texts, and so on.  When I wake up in the morning, it’s super easy to get sucked right into the info-cyclone on my phone.  Thirty or more notifications, emails to read, Facebook friends to stalk…The next thing I know, I’ve lost an hour, and my productivity for the day is struggling to keep afloat.

Enter Bullet Journaling.  The best thing about it is that you literally only need two things: A notebook and a writing utensil.  That’s it. Continue reading →

Beautiful Relationships

Beautiful Relationships

What is a Beautiful Relationship?

Our lives are made up of relationships.   Google defines “relationship” as the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected.  Whether we like it or not, we are connected to people.  And, well, people are human, which sometimes makes relationships difficult.

A beautiful relationship is one that looks beyond difficulties, hard circumstances, and old hurts.  A beautiful relationship chooses grace when it would be easier to be harsh.  It will choose to look past flaws to encourage success.  Beautiful relationships are worth taking time for.  The beautiful relationships in your life are more than worth sacrificing some things for!

Relationships are supposed to be beautiful things.  Friends are meant to lift us and encourage us to be better versions of ourselves.  A family is meant to love us, protect us, and encourage us.

Are Beautiful Relationships Really Possible?

There are hundreds of different types of relationships in our lives.  Here on Reflecting Beautiful, we will take some time to regularly look at the beautiful relationships in our lives.  We will explore the many different types of relationships that connect us.  We will look at each of the key relationships in our lives is and discover how to make them beautiful.

I want every relationship to be beautiful.  Of course, I understand that they can be messy.  They can be painful.  We humans are talented at hurting one another.  But I can’t want to settle for less than what could be.  What if your friendships could be deeper and more intentional?  What if your family could be stronger and more supportive?  What if your marriage could be filled with joy and purpose every day?

Here on the blog, I’ll be taking the time to share with you all how these things can be a reality in your life.  It’s not easy, though.  Having beautiful relationships is a challenge!  It requires daily effort and sacrifice but believe me, it’s worth it!

Together, we’ll explore the framework of each type of relationship.  We will look at friendships, family members, spiritual mentoring, and of course romance and marriage.  I will share the story of how I committed to only ever date one man in my life, and how that commitment became reality.  Five years into my beautiful marriage, I don’t have any regrets!

My Invitation to You

Let’s spend some time together.  Pretend with me that we’re sitting across from each other at the cozy corner table in that cute little coffee shop downtown.  Order your favorite drink (mine will be a salted caramel latte!), and let me tell you my story.  Let me encourage you, and take some time to tell me your story too!

I am looking forward to getting to know you and building a beautiful relationship with you!

The Grass is Always Greener

The Grass is Always Greener

A friend of mine on Facebook shared this quotation:

“You may think the grass is greener on the other side.  But if you take the time to water your own grass, it would be just as green!” -Anonymous

I don’t remember now who shared it, but I was struck by the implications of this simple statement and have been thinking about it ever since.

Girls have a tendency to gaze with longing at what someone else possesses and desire it for themselves.  Have you ever seen a picture of a girl on the front of a magazine at the checkout stand, and thought
something like “If only my hair was gorgeous like that!” or, “If only I had such flawless skin!” or, “I wish I could be a little skinnier…or curvier…or taller…or thinner…” or any other variation. Continue reading →

The Best “Smokey” Jalapeno Poppers

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The Best “Smokey” Jalapeno Poppers

Oh my, these are yummy!!!

Do you love spicy?  Do you love smokey?

Then these little beauties will make your day!

poppers_edit_watermarkedAren’t they pretty?

I love cheese stuffed jalapenos.  They’re spicy, and of course, they are cheesy.  What’s not to love?  They are one of my favorite snacks during the summer time.  My garden produced a lot of jalapenos this summer, so the other day I decided it was time to make cheese stuffed jalapenos again.

Some days I just like to make recipes up…and this was one of those days.  I looked up a couple of recipes to get some ideas and started messing around.   I wanted something a little different this time, so after gathering up the usual ingredients (cream cheese, shredded cheddar, salt), I remembered a secret ingredient.  A few weeks ago, I bought Smoked Paprika for another recipe and it has become my favorite spice/secret weapon.  So…I added it to the cheese mix and…

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Welcome Beautiful Souls

welcome-beautiful-souls-1Hello!  I’m so looking forward to meeting you.  I want to welcome you to my beautiful world!

I’m on a journey these days to discover how to have a more beautiful life.  My soul has been restless for a while now, and I need a change.

I have always enjoyed writing.  Writing papers was my favorite part of all my college classes.  I have loved to write stories since before word processors were a thing.  And now, I’m launching into the world of blogging.

This is a whole new world for me…It’s going to be a learning process!  It’s also going to be an adventure.  I’m going to learn a lot of new things, and I plan to share what I learn here.

I’m inviting you to join me on this adventure.

Come along for the ride and learn with me!  Let’s discover together what it means to be a beautiful soul.  Let’s find ways to make our lives, our friendships, and our souls better and stronger.

Grab a warm latte, curl up somewhere comfy, and stay a while.  Let’s be friends!